Nothing Good Happens When You Wait to Travel

The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed - Proverbs 11:25Share on FacebookShare on Google+Tweet about this on TwitterShare on LinkedInShare on StumbleUponPin on PinterestEmail this to someone


When you wait to travel, you are actually depriving yourself of the opportunity to get the best deals and other benefits for your adventure. Hundreds, if not thousands of friends, families, and travel enthusiasts will all have recommendations of what to and not to do, see, experience! But why base your trip on what others think you should do? Ex., waiting on our girlfriend to book her flight; only to end up booking the more expensive option, because the cheaper rate expired! Or, you take aunty’s recommendation on the best hotel to stay at but when you get there you realize that your taste and hers have a few decades of difference; budget, luxe or not.

Who wishes this was their next vacation?

Who wishes this was their next vacation?

Want to know a secret? The key to traveling, solo or group,  is to not follow the trails paved by others. No two people experience things the same way. If its been done before, why not opt in for the road less traveled? When we rely on Yelp, TripAdvisor or Zagat, we end up booking checklists rather than bucket-lists. Now don’t get me wrong, wanting to see the wonders of the world is great; but imagine experiencing it from an unexplored approach.

How you ask? Simply get lost in purpose, on purpose…letting the wind take you where GPS cannot imagine!

  • Take trains, buses, bikes – even walk to your destinations. You get a better hands-on view of the locale.
  • No GPS allowed! Don’t focus on “getting there,” rather relish in “being there” wherever there may be. Instead of using your phone’s location apps, put your camera to work. Capture the moments and memories of “there and now.”
  • Explore the neighborhood. Stroll through the areas that are adjacent and within close proximity of your accommodations. Visit the markets, shops and eateries. Tip: Look for mom and pop spots where the locals crowd instead of Zagat recommendations. 
  • Get social! Use apps like WAYN, HelloTel, Trover, Steller, Heylets, which allows you to get social with fellow travelers and enthusiasts.
  • Be open to the experience. Delight yourself in following the allure of your intuition. Be optimistic about to see your journey as the natives do. Tip: Please remember to be safe. As a tourist/visitor – your are a prime target for scams, pickpocketing, and in rare cases assault. So always remember that safety is a priority. 

When I went to Tijuana, Mexico a few years ago, I had an amazing time and experience. We went by tourbus from Los Angeles, California. The ride to the border was very relaxing and full of agriculture and oceanic sceneries. I was part of an expedition that was touring various Alternative Medicine facilities for terminal cancer patients (I was gathering intel for my client).

Surf's up! Are you ready to find the perfect wave?

Surf’s up! Are you ready to find the perfect wave?

I learned about raw juicing, how much cancer loves sugar, and how much life exists in stage 4 cancer patients. A few of us (including a man struck with stage 4 cancer) managed to sneak  away to a quaint mom-and-pop shop, located immediately across from one of our stops. Obviously, the natives spoke very little English, but the cuisine was genuinely authentic, smack-your-momma good.” And the view…the Pacific Ocean sat right in their back yard. For $5 each US; what an abundance of fresh, home-cooked Mexican cuisine.

“I will never forget the excitement on the shop owner’s faces when we paid? I promise you, it’s like that $15 paid their bills and more for months! We sat, ate and chatted. For someone who had months to live, this gentleman was living it up to the fullest, stopping to enjoy the simplistic splendors of life – many take for granted! Travel was his last hoorah…and he had no time or desire to wait to experience it!

Sapphire Kharyzma
Let's Travel

Sapphire Kharyzma

Editor-in-Chic, Executive Founding Director at Queens of Virtue, PBC
Queens of Virtue, PBC engages with girls & women through an empowered life of travel, beauty and style. We seek real girls & women, to offer authentic, spirit-led soul'U'tions; to help balance hectic lives. Lives are then transformed, as they become virtuous queens and eclectic storytellers who captivate memories, awakening their spiritual senses.

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Join us as we explore spiritual journeys, that are culturally inspired. Gather your bucket lists, cameras, journals, passports and taste buds -- as queens don't catch feelings, they catch flights, trains and ships!!!
Sapphire Kharyzma
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